My family loves animals, especially dogs. We've had dogs since before our children were born. Beth has been wanting a dog since she got married. She got a bunny and a guinea pig but had to give them away when she moved to a different appartment while they lived in Lincoln. In January they decided to go the the local amimal shelter and look for a kitten. Well, they also looked at puppies and Ben fell in love with a Rottweiler/Lab mix. She has the markings of a Rottweiler but the body shape of a Lab. They named her Daisy. She is very low energy for a puppy, very smart but not the bravest dog in the yard. There is a much smaller dog that belong to the people in the house next to them and when it barks, Daisy runs into the garage. Who knows? It might be good practice for the baby. Except for the taking her outside to go potty thing.

After I knew the ultrasound would be over I called and asked if everything was okay and if the baby had co-operated. She said yes to both and they were going to see if they could find a 'take-home' outfit for the baby. I didn't press for any more information because I knew they wanted to keep this information just between them for a little while. A few minutes later Brad called and asked if Beth knew the sex of the baby yet. I told him they weren't going to tell until the next day. He seemed a little disappointed.
They had to come to our house to pick up Daisy before they went home. It just happened to be the night of the Westminster Kennel Club Dog Show. Since there was nothing better on I made the dogs watch it with me and take notes. I hoped they would learn something from these beautiful, well behaved dogs. I really don't think they played close enough attention. It was just over when Ben and Beth came in.
Beth had a shopping bag in her hand. She said she wanted to show me something. They had decided to tell the grandparents and aunt and uncles that night. She had already called her dad, who was at work, and Ben's parents. I think they may have also called Ben's sister and her husband or were going to the next morning. Anyway I thought I saw a lot of pink in the bag and sure enough, she had several little girl outfits! They call Brad, who was at a friend's house, and had him come home. When he saw the little pink outfits I was holding he smiled and said, "It's a girl?' He hugged his sister and brother-in-law.
I would have been just as happy with a boy but I was surprised how thrilled I was that it was a girl! I couldn't stop smiling Oh the cute clothes I could buy! Now the only problem is the name. I will call her Wilhelmina.
I wanted my first baby to be a boy but I got a girl. I was not unhappy at all. Beth wanted her first to be a boy but is very happy with a girl. She said it took Ben a little while to get excited but when I saw him he was on cloud nine! Beth says there's going to be a lot of estrogen in the house with her, the baby and Daisy.
People are calling the baby "The Princess". Beth says she is going to have to remind her frequently that she is NOT the princess and that her daddy will be no help what so ever in that matter. She says there's only room for one Princess in their house and that is BETH. Oh, what a rude awakening she is in for! I told her she is now the Queen and the baby can have the "Princess" title.
This baby is starting to feel real to her now. Beth can call the baby 'she' and 'her'. She is starting to feel her move. She loves this baby but not they way she will. We've talked about this. I don't think a first time mother really knows how strong the love she has for that baby is until that baby is born. And I don't think I'll fully understand the love of a Grandmother until I see little Wilhelmina. I get tears in my eyes when I think about my daughter holding her little girl for the first time and falling deeply in love with her. I simply cannot wait!
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